9. Day 6: Joy Is The Red Balloon
I had the most incredible experience yesterday. Our dear friend who we are staying with in Norwich took us to tour the Red Balloon Learning Center of Norwich of which he sits on the Board. This is a place where the victims of severe bullying (the children who are unable to return to school because of being so traumatized as a result of terrifying bullying incidents) are educated in a curriculum which includes the standards of English, Maths and Science but also gentle therapy, a loving environment and a new way to see themselves. The Red Balloon Learning Center is housed in a three story...
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I recently came across a quote by Geneen Roth that said: “Enough isn’t an amount. It is a relationship with what you already have.”—Geneen Roth I believe she was using this in the context of eating, nourishment and awareness of the body but I think it is true in all things. I am just beginning my month of extending love to the fear of Living Joy. Joy has always been how I take my temperature. If I am feeling joy, life is good. When I do not feel joy, life is flat and charmless. I used to see joy as something I could find or get or lose. I could feel joy when...
Read More9. Day 4: A Call In The Middle Of The Night
One of the epic fears we all face and dread is the call in the middle of the night. It is disorienting, shocking, stunning and exhilarating all at the same time. There is something very galvanizing and clarifying about the call, that has a power all its own. In the space of a single message two people integral to our lives, hearts and businesses were taken to hospital. The feeling of helplessness, distance, disbelief and shock set alight a string of thoughts, a majestic display of “what if ?” and manic solution, none of which was really needed. For hours we waited for news,...
Read More9. Day 3: Joy Is Ordinary, Ordinary Is Joy
I have a feeling that joy is quite connected to the ordinary. Can you tell me/show me what is meant by being ordinary? HS: Dearest One, the practice of ordinary is the practice of noticing, allowing and being what is true about you all the time. Ordinary is what is always true, no exceptions. Ordinary is the rock upon which you build your life. Ordinary is what the universe is. Ordinary is what IS. You long sought extraordinary as a way to tell yourself you are better what what is. It is a fool’s game which leaves players exhausted, lost, traumatized and forgetful. Extraordinary is...
Read More9. Day 2: Joy Sings
This new month of extending love that I may experience joy is unfolding already with the unexpected. We are staying this week with a dear friend in Norwich who drove us all home from a meeting in London yesterday (2 1/2 hours on the M5). It was a grand and long day that was not yet finished when we finally arrived in Norwich. We went directly to choir practice. I haven’t sung in a choir since I was in middle school. This was a non professional choir rehearsing for a charity event coming up in a couple of weeks for Red Balloon Learner Center (a marvelous group who offer specialized...
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