10. Day 16: Koala Mittens, Air Force One & Carrot Cake
It is always interesting to see how our last full day is spent before the family must separate again. I have (almost) given up trying to orchestrate “the perfect last day” and am learning to really trust whatever shows up. So there I was, sitting pretty in my trust and I get a phone call from Adam. I laughed because Adam and Eva were on the phone (I giggle easily). I commented as such and Adam burst out laughing, which was a good thing for both of us. Adam called to tell me the news about my car. His voice had the same tone of the doctor telling you the test is positive....
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Not fearing fear itself is better said by “allowing fear to be”. And fear is just another form of energy squeezing, shifting and tightening. Like what I am feeling right now. I would not describe this as fear exactly but more of a broiling kettle of near grief. Not end-of-life grief but an ending nevertheless. Our magnificent holiday ended with a sort of mini family gathering vacation at home. My youngest daughter had to return to the US to get a different visa for a longer stay in England and the fiance of my older daughter was able to get duty here for two weeks so joined...
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One of my finds of the new year is a wonderful book called “A Year Without Fear” by Tama Kieves. Ms. Kieves has been a favorite author of mine for years ever since I read her first book “This Time I Dance” her story of going to Harvard Law School, graduating with honors and ultimately leaving her law practice to pursue the desires of her heart. Naturally I was mesmerized. Her newest book, “A Year Without Fear” is not unlike my blog. It is a daily dose of love and fearlessness to remind you that you are love and to embrace whatever is in front of you...
Read More10 Day 13: 100 Reasons Why Debt Is My Friend
Just the word debt makes me shrink and tighten. I get internally what a teenage friend of my girls’ once called “sphincter face”. You know, the face you make when you see one of those terrible accidents unfolding on a You Tube video or when you take a big bite out of a lemon. This is the epitome of tighten, resist and STOP the flow (of thought, or feeling, of life). As this blog and my year of Twelvemonth of Self Love is all about extending love to my thoughts I was shown yesterday that I have a whopping area that I allow Love’s Presence to be blocked and that is...
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This morning I woke up with fear itself sitting on my chest, whispering in my ear “It’s time to pay the Piper”. I listened for awhile, hanging my head in agreement, thinking this amounted to extending love and being with but I still felt hounded, a little breathless and a tad guilty. I mean I did just declare by my very actions that it is AOK to take off on a trip for seven weeks to do business certainly but there was a lot of eating, drinking and making merry. I should pay for this, right? I certainly should pay my credit card debt and I should redouble my daily...
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